Resources

“Got Interpersonal Effectiveness?

If you’re like 95-99% of the population,

your unconscious Filters are keeping

you from being your most effective.”

Early Memories: Walk through the same activity that Sandy followed to identify how some of her early experiences shaped her Filters.

SEE Model: List your descriptors of a simple picture to identify some of your own Filters.

Expectations: Separating Frames from Filters: Use your own experiences to see how expectations can be a window into our unconscious Filters.

Filter Check: Put yourself in a crowd of strangers and watch your Filters emerge.

Becky’s Example of Compromise: Learn from Becky’s example how she could have responded more effectively using the three steps to Compromise.